no wonder

I just heard something in the radio (FlyFm to be exact) and it really made me thinking.
I'm in the middle of the segment called Flirty at Ten Thirty.
Then, theres this women called, and she seeked help from the DJ (Jules and Prem). Her problem is, she is now undergoing the process of divorcing with her husband.
The thing is, they had been married for 7 years and had a son. The wife was studying for 3 years ( I dunno where ) and when she finished her studying, her husband asked for a divorce.

Reason given : the husband had other women.

From that it made me think, why is so so so easy for mens to turn their feelings around towards other women. As for example, this couple had been married for 7 years, not counting their few years of romance before married. Suddenly, he asked for a divorce. How mean is that?! Okay, okay. The wife had been busy with her studying thingy but hey, she cant be 24/7 busy right? She still carrying her responsibilty as a wife and a mother.

I also had read this one entry posted by this one blogger. She said about being loyal. In her entry she was very confused about LOYALTY. Sometimes being loyal is stupid but sometimes being loyal is such a pure action. Mens, why is it so hard for ya'll to be loyal and patient and understanding?

I've watched the show "Wanita Hari Ini" in TV3. The topic is also a 'lil bit about women and mens. Their guest including Dato' Dr Fadzilah Kamsar and he stated that mens are actually hard to understand than women because mens have only 60degreee point of view while women have 120degree. This is why eventhough a man had been married for 30 years, he has only 40% knowledge of his wife. But, if woman had been married for 1year, she can already master her husband behavior almost 100%. fuyh.

well, I know I'm like too young for this kind of stuff but really, it just made me think about my future. Frankly, I am so so not ready for it.

Mens, please, try to be loyal and push yourself to try understand the womens.
Women, dont be harsh towards your hubby/boyfriend. Try to tolerate with them and JGN BAGI MUKE KT DIAORANG !

toodles.
xoxo,
Amira